Other people might have certain expectations for you. They might expect you to live in a certain type of house or dress a certain way. They might expect you to have certain interests or be interested in certain collectibles.
The thing to ask yourself is whether you should really care about other people’s expectations? If your house doesn’t meet their standards, is that not their problem and not yours? If you don’t dress in a way that impresses others, is that not more on them then on you?
If other people’s expectations are causing you stress, rather then trying to meet these expectations, maybe it would be better to meet new people.
Have a great day!