Some people like to be thought of a certain way. They might want to be perceived as a tough person or as an artsy person. They might act a certain way, or dress a certain way or talk a certain way.
The thing to remember is this doesn’t always mean it’s the way they really are.
A tough acting person might do a great deal behind the scenes which are the acts of a truly sensitive and caring person.
A person who acts disorganized and gives the impression of doing things in a way that most people would assume is uncaring might have spent a great deal of time getting organized and caring about what they are doing.
While in some parts of our lives perceptions are reality it’s important to look beyond the initial appearances and see what the person is really like. You might be surprised
Just something to think about.
Have a great day!