Some people feel they have power based on their ability to control a situation.
They control the seating chart for a dinner party so they have power
They control the content going on a web site so they have power
They control the theme of an event so they have power
The question one must ask is “is this really power?”
The other question is “does anyone really care?”
Some things it truly is important to control (I was the best doctor possible to control the situation when surgery is needed) but for many things that people fight for control over, in the long run, NO ONE CARES.
Just something to think about.
Have a great day!