Save yourself first
You can’t save other people if you can’t haven’t saved yourself first.
If you are depressed you won’t be able to help others out of their depression until you start to get out of yours.
If you are struggling financially you should work to get yourself out of debt before trying to get someone else out of debt.
It might seem very selfish but if you take care of yourself first you will then be more successful helping others.
Have a great day!