When someone says “can’t” they usually don’t mean can’t. They might mean wont. They might mean they don’t want to. They might mean they shouldn’t. Rarely do they truly mean can’t.
If someone says they can’t do something to you, and it’s something you really want done, figure out what they are really saying and it’s much easier to overcome the obstacle.
If you say can’t to someone, make sure it’s truly the right word. Otherwise, use the correct word to accurately reflect your beliefs.
Have a great day!