If you want to see what a person is really like, observe them during a period of adversity.
The business person who preaches honor and integrity but when a financial crisis occurs lies and steals, is a liar and a thief.
The man who seems to worship the ground his wife walks on until a disagreement occurs at which time he strikes her, is a wife abuser.
The youth group organizer who has helped hundreds of kids but also has sexually abused a few of them is a pedophile.
Frequently we determine someones character when things are going well but the real time to do so is during times of adversity.
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